Culture is one of the things that beats my understanding.
Its not easy to explain but i will consider one feature out of the many contradicting features.Polygamy in the western world is viewed at as something so evil and yet in my culture ,its just an ordinary practice that anybody can do so long as he is able to keep manage the women well. Take an example of the female-male ratio in the countries of africa and the entire world, women are relatively greater in number than the male.Now the question in space is if one man is to marry one wife then where will the rest go and yet God requires one man to have one wife.